<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/' xmlns:georss='http://www.georss.org/georss' xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4149295506469035324</id><updated>2012-02-16T05:57:32.136-08:00</updated><title type='text'>cycle of love</title><subtitle type='html'></subtitle><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://teachme-love.blogspot.com/feeds/posts/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4149295506469035324/posts/default?max-results=100'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://teachme-love.blogspot.com/'/><link rel='hub' href='http://pubsubhubbub.appspot.com/'/><author><name>mylife</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04121909730465998307</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>1</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>100</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4149295506469035324.post-4069484275941846074</id><published>2011-04-23T20:55:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2011-04-23T20:58:54.264-07:00</updated><title type='text'>When does love linger?</title><content type='html'>I just watched this short film in youtube talking about stages in a relationship. Basically, it shows 7 stages&amp;nbsp; a relationship might go thru:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;1. Meeting&lt;br /&gt;-the time you had a first glance on her/him &lt;br /&gt;2. The chase&lt;br /&gt;-a phase where you can't think of other people but him/her&lt;br /&gt;3. honeymoon&lt;br /&gt;-you are his/her center of attention&lt;br /&gt;4. Comfortable&lt;br /&gt;-being true to your self. the catch is either this leads you to continue growing with each other or could take each other for granted.&lt;br /&gt;5. tolerance&lt;br /&gt;-doesn't find her/his partner special at all&lt;br /&gt;6. downhill&lt;br /&gt;- both of you have no time to work things out&lt;br /&gt;7. breaking up &lt;br /&gt;- starting a new path and living life separately and becoming strangers again.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"to each his own"&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I am having difficulty in finding love among the stages. Does love die when you are both comfortable with each other or should i say love is in danger during Comfortable stage?&amp;nbsp; or&amp;nbsp;love dies when&amp;nbsp;someone&amp;nbsp;stopped trying...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I get emotional when i see couples who made it untill their end of dying day. For my friends, I always wish them to find love after a breakup and to enjoy love.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Factors of a successful relationship are in parallel with factors of unsuccessful relationship. They said communication and respect are two&amp;nbsp;important things, but sometimes others can't help but to find themselves trap into these stages therefore looking for a new relationship.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Or is it destiny?&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/4149295506469035324-4069484275941846074?l=teachme-love.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://teachme-love.blogspot.com/feeds/4069484275941846074/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://teachme-love.blogspot.com/2011/04/when-does-love-linger.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4149295506469035324/posts/default/4069484275941846074'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4149295506469035324/posts/default/4069484275941846074'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://teachme-love.blogspot.com/2011/04/when-does-love-linger.html' title='When does love linger?'/><author><name>mylife</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04121909730465998307</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry></feed>
